Gratitude practice: Learning how to have a thankful heart
- BJ Kuykendall
- Woodburn Independent - Features
Sometimes we overlook the most basic principles in Gods Word as we search for keys to spiritual growth because we assume that were beyond the childrens lessons. If we all take an honest look at our own hearts, we will have to admit that in the area of gratitude, the children have passed us by. Its high time we learn how to have and practice a thankful heart. In doing so, we will discover that this is the key to many areas of growing spiritually. Romans 1:21 shows us that ingratitude is a root of many horrible sins, and likewise, developing an attitude of gratitude will affect many areas of our life and help us to grow in Christ.
It is sobering to recognize that all ingratitude stems from pride, feeling we never get as much as we deserve.
The primary motivation for exercising this character quality is simply that God has commanded us in His Word, In everything give thanks(I Thessalonians 5:18). This verse leaves no doubt what were supposed to do or how often we should do it, nor does it give room for exceptions. Everything means everything. True gratefulness springs from an awareness of our total unworthiness and inadequacy before a holy and just God. Our thanks should go first of all to God since, Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above (James 1:17). That heart of thankfulness will naturally flow out to those around us for all they do to enrich our lives as well. We want to focus especially on the importance of thanking God and give practical suggestions to help cultivate this attitude.
How do I cultivate an attitude of thankfulness and gratitude?
As with many other fruits of the Christian life, we will find that as we make deliberate choices to be thankful, whether we feel like it or not, we will soon discover a heart full of thanksgiving that naturally spills out throughout the day. At first, this takes some discipline and old-fashioned grit to get into the habit.
Perhaps you are in a very difficult situation and feel like there isnt much to be thankful for. The challenge to you is to begin to exercise in this area today, and just see how blessed you are a week from now.
The very fact that we are being given life this moment is something to be very grateful for. God is on His throne and is providing for our needs. We have been promised that if we remain faithful, we will spend eternity in heaven with Him and a multitude of other blessings besides. Learn to thank God for what you do have instead of murmuring about what you dont have. Helen Keller, whom we all know faced numerous trials in her life, had learned this lesson well and shares with us, So much has been given to me, I have no time to ponder over that which has been denied. Our perspective makes a world of difference.
Most of us are used to pausing before eating a meal and giving thanks to the One who has blessed us with the food set before us, and yet why do we only thank God at those scheduled times? Shouldnt we be just as grateful for every drink of water or a simple snack? Truly God deserves our thanks all day long for all He is continually giving us, so we should use every free moment and fill that moment with praise.
What if we trained ourselves to receive any and every situation with thankfulness?
If youre saying, It all sounds good, but thats just not my personality, I have wonderful news for you. The power of Jesus is about transformation, radical change and new beginnings. Believe it or not, the most die-hard pessimist can become an optimist who loves living and sees the bright side in everything.
It is amazing how quickly the habit is established and you will find thanksgiving flowing out of your heart and mouth without effort. The fact is, there is a very bright side in everything.
Children being brought up in a home like this will not need to be taught to be thankful. They will pick it up naturally because theyll constantly be hearing their parents making positive comments about the beautiful sunshine (not the awfully hot day), delicious food from the garden (not all the tiring work that goes into it), and the joy of a sweet little baby (not the sleepless nights).
Begin exercising gratitude by willingly receiving all things from the sovereign hand of God and finding the benefits in each circumstance, and youll be amazed to discover just how blessed your family really is.