Hundreds celebrate Emilio Hoffman's life at Sunday's funeral
- Lisa K. Anderson
- Portland Tribune - News
Loved ones remember the 14-year-old Reynolds freshman as a fun-loving, fashion-savvy soccer player
To highlight Emilio Hoffman's signature style and love of fashion, hundreds of people filed into his funeral service Sunday afternoon sporting red Converse shoes.
More than 350 people celebrated Hoffmans life at Good Shepherd Community Church in Boring, less than two weeks after his untimely death.
The 14-year-old Reynolds High freshman was shot and killed Tuesday, June 10, in the gymnasium building of his school. But those gathered Sunday wanted to focus on all the life he brought to the world.
Some of us know Emilio and some do not, but we need each other, said Pastor Steve Keels, who officiated the service. We have to walk toward each other. This is an event that has in many ways rocked all of us in on way or another.
Emilio Luis Hoffman was born July 15, 1999, in Portland to Jennifer Hoffman and Abraham Gallardo, the oldest of five children.
From an early age, Hoffman had a magnetic presence, a contagious sense of fun and an eye for brand-name clothes.
Hoffman attended Kelly Creek Elementary School from first through third grade, where he played T-ball and flag football. Soccer became his real love, a sport that took his family on a busy, year-round journey.
To help channel Hoffmans rambunctious energy into academics, his family moved the boy to Arthur Academy, a smaller school, for fourth through sixth grade.
Each year, teacher Jesse Slick pays students fake money for jobs around the classroom. Students then pay rent for their desks. The crafty ones buy other students desks and have them pay rent, but most kids dont bring in their own fake money from home, Slick joked, describing Hoffmans strategy.
Emilio had this particular swagger, said Slick. You could spot it from a distance. He loved to laugh and smile all the time."
Slick became Hoffmans mentor that year, coming to know the boy as competitive, hilarious and personable.
After Hoffman left Arthur Academy, Slick began a Star Student award. On Sunday, he presented the posthumous award to Jennifer, his mother, in Emilios memory.
He also presented Jennifer Hoffman with an official Portland Timbers jersey with Emilios name and soccer number, 29.
Hoffman went on to Walt Morey Middle School for seventh and eighth grade before arriving at Reynolds High School and joining the schools soccer family.
He was also a member of the club team, Crystal, a team that coach Arnaldo Soriano said always loved Emilio, even when he got into mischief.
His social nature sometimes distracted Hoffman from academics his lingual family was perplexed when he was flunking Spanish but it was also one of his beloved characteristics.
He excelled at building computers, he loved coaching soccer for his younger twin brothers and he shared his silly personality on social media profiles such as Twitter, SnapChat and Facebook.
This summer, Hoffman had planned to coach his twin brothers in soccer, obtain his drivers permit and volunteer for Legacy Mount Hood Medical Center.
His girlfriend, Alyssa Karm, recalled all the little things Hoffman did that made people adore him. She remembered hanging out on his trampoline and watching The Fault in our Story, a love story that made Hoffman cry, she said.
In the end, I finally got you, Karm said. You were my first kiss, my first boyfriend and my first love. I was your last kiss, your last girlfriend and your last love, and nothing can change that."
Jennifer Hoffman told attendees it had always been her job to help Emilio write papers, but now she needed his help to write hers. She said she had no words, outlines or organization in the wake of her sons death.
The day you were born was the true beginning of me, she said. It was who I was supposed to be I needed to be your mom.
Hoffman said her son was taken from her, but no one could take away her crazy, immeasurable love for him.
I can stand here and go on for many hours about all the things we will miss, Jennifer Hoffman said. Your unconditional love, contagious laughter and compassion for life are among the greatest of them all. I will cherish your music, sense of style, sense of humor and selfies.
My memories are so alive, she said. Your family, friends, teammates, coaches, teachers and community all suffer through this time. Please dont worry about them I promise to hug them tight and check on them often."
Reynolds science teacher Deithra Archie told students the tragedy did not define their class or Reynolds High, challenging them to "live, have fun, take care of each other. To "push each other, encourage each other and be there for each other."
Hoffman used to induce giggles in Archie and ask if she had missed him over the weekend, and she would joke that she hadn't.
"Emilio Hoffman, I will miss you," Archie said.
Keels prayed for the students, teachers and parents gathered for the funeral, and Troutdale Police Chief Scott Anderson concluded the service with Psalm 23 from The Bible.
Rest in paradise, my sweetness, said Jennifer Hoffman.
Fly with the angels, my boy P.S. We all got some new red Chucks.
Remembrances may be paid to Hoffman by visiting batemancarrollfunerals.com.