Anti-bullying activity upsets some parents
Inza R. Wood Middle School in the West Linn-Wilsonville School District kicked off its Wood Reads event Wednesday, Feb. 3 with a bit of controversy.
After a school-wide morning assembly introducing the book The Misfits, the first in a series of books meant to address bullying in schools, and a brief skit from Wood students and staff approaching the subject, students returned to their classrooms. There, students took part in a secondary activity centered on the idea of bullying, which has some parents upset.
Veronica Gillas said her sixth-grade daughter, along with all the other students in the class, was asked to walk to the center of the room where a teacher would then ask a question. If the answer to the question was yes, students would walk to one end of the room, and if the answer was no they would head to the opposite end. If the question didnt apply to him or her then the student would stay in the middle of the room.
The problem, in Gillas eyes, was that the questions seemed inappropriate and intrusive for school. She said that according to her daughter, the questions included, among others, Have you ever been on governmental assistance? Have you ever been suspended from school? and Have either of your parents ever been to jail?
Gillas said, according to her daughter, it was not made clear that students could refrain from participating, and that multiple students ended up crying from embarrassment.
I was absolutely beside myself when she told me, Gallas said. While Im sure it wasnt the intention, this activity could cause a lot of harm to kids. The activity was meant to prevent bullying, but it just gave kids more information and ammunition to use in bullying others.
Gillas immediately called other parents asking if they had heard about the school activity. She found those that she called had a similar reaction, and were upset that such an activity could be allowed to happen.
While Principal Jim Severson does not know exactly which questions were asked in individual classes, and acknowledged that some teachers might have freelanced from the main purpose of the activity, he said the day of anti-bullying activities was set up and vetted by a committee. He said he did not hear any negative feedback from teachers immediately following Wednesdays classes, but that any and all activities surrounding such a sensitive topic are reviewed and adjusted depending on response from students and parents.
We always take feedback into consideration in everything we do, he said. Creating a sense of community for our kids that is equitable is the most important thing. ... I can say we have the purest of intentions when designing activities that aim to keep students better connected.
The district said the book, along with various activities, is meant to start the conversation about bullies in ways that lead to students feeling comfortable and safe. The activity was meant to show students theyre not alone in their set of circumstances, and that others come from similar backgrounds or face similar struggles.
There were two things we were trying to accomplish, said Assistant Superintendent Aaron Downs. Were welcoming our middle schoolers into a conversation about bullying while looking at labels and the negative effects they produce. I think when you open those opportunities for those discussions theres a lot of sensitivity around it. But that was the approach for the day. Open up those conversations, see where our students are at and see that theyre respected, too.
Severson said that if he had received information regarding negative reactions from students, such as crying or discomfort, necessary actions would have been taken accordingly.
If I had known there had been kids in tears, and I dont know the truth to that, someone would have been contacted and done something about it, whether it be me, a counselor or someone else, he said.
Gillas said she talked to both Severson and Downs over the phone the following day, Feb. 4, but wasnt satisfied with the reasons she received for the activity taking place.
This action cannot be taken back by the administration, she said. These children are going to remember the answers to these questions. Worst case scenario is that this information is used against them by their peers.
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